What you don't say...

On Baefamily - friends indeed

"Everyone hears what you say.
Friends listen to what you say.
Best friends listen to what you don't say."
- Anon

When I first saw BYJ's drama, The Legend, I tried to find more of his works in the net and stumbled upon the big Baefamily[BYJ calls fans, family]. I didn't know I was going to make many great friends from all over the world. I'm grateful to BYJ for Baefamily, who are my friends [among other things !].

It has been almost a year since I've became a member of BYJ's family. I've developed myself in so many ways...I'm truly dazed by it..
Now...many people in many countries in Asia and around the world are connected to each other through BYJ family forums, strengthening and helping each other.For these images of BYJ that I took with my camera happily, dear you know who, thank you so much !
Here's for all my friends :

Potrait of a friend

I can't give solutions to all of life's problems, doubts,
or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will
search for answers.

I can't change your past with all it's heartache and pain,

nor the future with its untold stories.
But I can be there now when you need me to care.

I can't keep your feet from stumbling.
I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall

Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine;
Yet I can share in your laughter.

Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;
I can only support you, encourage you,
and help you when you ask.

I can't prevent you from falling away from friendship,

from your values, from me.
I can only pray for you, talk to you and wait for you.

I can't give you boundaries which I have determined for you,
But I can give you the room to change, room to grow,
room to be yourself.

I can't keep your heart from breaking and hurting.
But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces

and put them back in place.

I can't tell you who you are.
I can only love you and be your friend.

--Unknown

Photos : Official Calendar 2009